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Have you ever stopped to notice that choices directly affect experience? So, naturally, that means that experience is a direct reflection of choice. Are you listening? Do you get it? Your experience…at work, at play, in relationships, in family, in LIFE is a direct reflection of the choices you make.

I hear the skeptics. I hear people respond by saying “I did NOT choose this experience, it sucks! I wanted happiness, abundance, love, etc. What I’m experience is definitely not what I wanted!”

Oh how funny we are. We never stop to look at the real choice we are making. We think we are making a choice when are mind says “Yes, I want that.” But what’s really happening is that our thoughts are simply that, our thoughts…the belief that lives underneath the thought, in the pit of our stomachs and in our hearts, is the actual choice we are making.

So, even if we say “Yes, I want that” and all the while we are believing “I’m not really good enough” or “I can’t do that” or even “There’s no way that’s going to happen” we will experience the belief, not the thought. I don’t care how many times you repeat that thought over and over…but yet you are repeating (and actually choosing) the belief over and over…guess what…your experience will directly reflect the choice of the belief.

Take a look at the experiences in your life… what you consider the good ones as well as what you consider to be the bad ones. Now look at the belief that was actually underlying those experiences. You go to work, a job that you hate, and wonder why the day literally sucks. You’ve already made the choice…that work sucks. Hence, you will experience exactly that. You go to a party, one you’re looking forward to, and you have a great time. You’ve already made the choice…that the party will be fun. Hence, you experience exactly that. You enter into a relationship, you think they will provide the stability you need and you wonder why that person only seems to get more unstable by the day and nothing in your life is stable. You’ve already made the choice that you yourself need someone else to provide it for you because you just can’t do it by yourself. Hence, you experience exactly that…instability. You apply for a job, you wonder if you are really capable of doing the job, you get the job but at a very low salary. You’ve already made the choice that you really aren’t enough to do the job and aren’t worth that much money. Hence you experience exactly that. So yes, the mediocre experience that you are having…YOU are actually choosing it. And in the same breath, the amazing experience you are having…YOU are actually choosing it.

Do you get my drift? If not, I can continue with examples. Really…take a very close look at what you are choosing…REALLY…and then notice how it directly reflects your experience. Don’t just stop at the thought, move deeper into what is really underlying the thought. Every single experience is connected to every single choice. Even when we don’t realize we are choosing…we are absolutely choosing. By being aware of the choices we make we have the opportunity to change them. Ah yes…but do you have the courage to change them? Where does the fear lie? Is it in the space where you are scared to death if you show your true self to your partner that they will leave you? What happens if they leave? What do you ‘lose’? It’s in acknowledging that fear that lets you see just how you are still CHOOSING to fill that need outside of yourself. And as long as you believe you don’t have it within you…you will experience exactly that.

Every experience. Every choice. Directly connected. What are you choosing…and why?

Do you REALLY want to have a different experience in life? Maybe it’s just in one or two aspects of your life. Where ever it is that you would like a different experience, understand and know that you, and ONLY you, are the one that can change it. You, and ONLY you, can determine your experience. Nobody else has a hand in your experience. NOBODY. You can not blame or thank anyone else for your experience. They may give you an opportunity…but only YOU can choose to do with it what YOU want. 

Experience and choice…directly connected…do you get it? Can you see it? This is your world. This is YOUR experience. You have the knowledge, power and ability to create your own experience. Oh, there it is again…create your own. You are the Creator as well as the Createe…and it’s in your choices (beliefs) that the creation is made. Even though we experience that creation in the outer world, it is first created in the inner space of the Soul.

I’m going to say it one more time…just because I get such a rush from knowing how this works and applying it in my world that I want everyone to have as much fun as I am…EXPERIENCE AND CHOICE ARE DIRECTLY CONNECTED. OUR EXPERIENCE IS IMMEDIATELY AND CONSTANTLY AFFECTED BY OUR CHOICES.

What will you choose now? Have fun!

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Are you still feeling the effects of the 3 eclipses?

Have you noticed yet the opportunities to see deeper into yourself? I mean those opportunities are always there, but the vibration the eclipses brought are really bring our junk to the surface. Are you using those opportunities to understand yourself a bit better?

Seems lately more and more people are looking at their fears. They are noticing how those fears affect their entire lives, not just a portion of their life. One fear, one belief, influences every single choice we make. It only takes one fear to take our life from fab to mediocre. The question is will we make the choice to release that fear and choose something different?

Our Soul gives us the opportunity every moment to shift that fear. We give ourselves the chance to see exactly what we are doing and how to change it several times throughout the day. Sometimes the problem is that we’ve been choosing through the fear for so long that we no longer recognize when we are receiving the signals that we’re doing it.

Pay attention to what your body is telling you. How do you feel? What is happening in front of you? Do you find yourself frustrated, angry, defensive, shut down…yet again? Do you find yourself looking at the same issues…yet again? Those right there, they are your cues. They are your signs to stop what you are doing and breathe.

When you find yourself in a state of flux…and your body will absolutely let you know…stop and ask yourself why you are choosing to respond that particular way to the situation. If you are honest with yourself you will discover that there is a very old ‘less-than’ belief about yourself deep within your mind. It is that belief that drives the reaction, the response, the choice.

By stopping and looking at it, by becoming aware of it, you have the opportunity to choose a different response, a different expression, a different choice. A different expression…one that resonates with who you Truly are, instead of one that shows only a part of your Truth and all of your fear.

Have you ever noticed that the moment you doubt yourself you step into the situation only part way? Part way indicates that you are not expressing yourself fully. Part way indicates mediocre. Mediocre indicates you are not living a full life. Mediocre means that instead of choosing to express yourself 100%, you are CHOOSING to only express through your fear.

Have you ever been doing something and you feel like you’re on cloud 9? You have no doubts about what you are doing, how you are doing it…you simply are having fun and this is blissful? That is you expressing at 100%. Now, imagine being like that every moment of your life. Imagine living that bliss…that happiness…that joy…ALL of the time.

How do you do it? By CHOOSING to express YOURSELF 100%…all of the time. If your life is feeling mediocre…whether you want to accept that it is or not…than you are CHOOSING to express your fears…instead of your True self.

Remember, nobody else can make you choose, whether you are choosing mediocre or something else. Only you can make your choices. There is nobody else that drives your choices. ONLY YOU. Take the opportunity today, right now, to move out of the fear that ‘you can’t’, ‘I’m wrong’ or any other excuse you can find…and shift into Love. Shift into Life. Shift into YOU…the True you. Personally, I think mediocre sucks and I’m not choosing it anymore.

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