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I am inspired to write this because of a friend of mine, a dear friend. As she moves through her own journey she is creating some pretty potent stumbling blocks. My heart, although filled with Love for her, sometimes slips into a space of sadness. I want so much to reach out and help her, to ease her ‘pain’ and help her ‘heal’. I use quotations for those specific words because I know that her pain is self assumed, and her healing is also self assumed. There is no need for me to believe in that with her.

While I was ‘wanting’ to help her I was becoming frustrated because I knew I could not. I was reminded that even though I can not understand what she was going through, and why she was choosing to go through it, didn’t mean that it was perfect on a deeper level. That reminder struck such a deep cord within me. I had to let go of the idea, the wanting, to make her journey ‘right’. Who’s right was I wanting to impart anyway? My right…or her right? And who’s to say that my idea of what right is was the ‘right’ right for her?

I was forced (thankfully) to move into the space of Trust…trusting that she is absolutely perfect and she already has everything she needs in her state of perfection.

I was also reminded that as long as I could see my own perfection I would clearly see not only her perfection, but everyone’s and everything’s perfection. If I am seeing only the perfection in me, then how could I ever see anything less than that in anyone else? And that theory swings the other way as well…if I am seeing only the ‘less-than’ part of myself, then I will see only the ‘less-than’ part of everyone and everything else.

Choices…what do you choose to see in yourself? Becuase what you see in yourself is exactly what you see in everyone else. And, that is exactly what experience you will have. Take a peak within yourself and see just what your perfection looks like. I promise, you will not be disappointed.

Oh yeah, I’m here to remind you that excuses = fear. All of those excuses that you come up with for not doing things, are simply you thinking that ‘you can’t’ do something. All of those excuses that you come up with for not meditating are simply you believing that you can’t do it. And what happens if you can do it? What then? Holy crap that means you are responsible for your own life…and then right there I felt you move back into the belief of “I can’t do it by myslef” and “Life is too hard to do it by myslef”. Oh funny little humans we are.

Enjoy life!
In Love,
Trish

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